Saturday, March 27, 2010

Transition

Okay, so I really don't blog like I used to. So I must confess... Just as I started getting used to being transparent and honest with the world, life began a new transition. So what did I do? I did what I've always done. Reverted back to my private, protective self. I often take comfort in knowing that I had a precious secret that will remain unscathed by this treacherous world as long as I keep my mouth shut.

But... that only works for so long. Then you start to get uncomfortable. You start to get headaches and blurred vision because the information you hold will make such a significant impact on the world that it literally makes you sick as you attempt to contain it.

So world, as we transition toward parenthood, I pray. I pray that I am everything God envisioned me to be and will continue to trust Him on my journey. This life within me is so great, I can not fathom trusting it to my own ability. So I just sit back and enjoy the transition.

Now, that I've updated you, let me start with what annoys me.

#1- It annoys me that people don't even speak anymore (a simple hello would suffice), as they blurt out whatever question kept them up all night worried about my belly. It amazes me how people feel obligated to information that has absolutely no effect on their life and well-being.

#2- Then, the next annoying step in the process is their look of disgust when I do not answer their burning questions. Nothing makes me keep more quiet or aloof than someone who thinks they're entitled to something that doesn't even involve them.

#3- Next up on my most annoying list, would be those who want to "see" your belly. Which really means, let me reach out and touch your body when you least expect it because again, it's all about me you know. The nerve! People are so unique and diversified that they never consider your feelings when they make their own self centered decisions. But please! Dare not deny them their desire.

#4- Then we have the, how dare she shop in the maternity section when she doesn't even look pregnant and I've been wearing maternity clothes for the past four years after the birth of my second child death-stare. I do not apologize for the wonderful experience that I'm having even if you can't always tell what's going on in my body, but I'd rather you simply ask me if I'm pregnant than try to bore a whole through me with your eyes.

#5- Next up! Talking directly to my belly when you are not the father of my child. It simply makes me feel uncomfortable no matter how well intentioned your actions are.

Whew! I feel so much better! Other than my top five most annoying things to do to me while I'm pregnant list, this has been an absolutely marvelous experience. With that being said, my blog is probably going to change. When all you do is think about birth plans, daycare expenses & nursery decor, the description of your thoughts must convey this message.

Now, although I believe this may be enlightening to some, it may be annoying to others. I understand. Just keep in mind that no matter where you are and who you are, you are going through some kind of transition in your own life. All I ask is that you take time to enjoy every step of the process, even the rough moments. You'll never live this experience again. Appreciate it for what it is and how it will enhance your being.


Friday, March 26, 2010

Fabricated Friday's- Techno Savvy


I love technology!

Amazingly useful, creative & helpful.
What more can I say?!

Monday, March 22, 2010

It's Our Anniversary

Happy Anniversary

I Love You!

XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXO







Musiq Soulchild- Just Friends




India Arie- The Truth



India Arie- Brown Skin







Jill Scott- The Way




Beyonce- Dangerously In Love



John Legend- So High








Jill Scott- He Loves Me



John Legend- Refuge (When It’s Cold Outside)



Eric Benet & Tamia- Spend My Life With You






Saturday, March 20, 2010

I've Resorted to This!


Thankful to have had the opportunity to take a little hiatus!


Gaylord National Resort & Convention Center
National Harbor, Maryland

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Flying High


I love the airport. There is something about seeing hundreds, or even thousands, of people moving about. It takes me out of my own little world and opens up a window of vast mental opportunities.

Today, we can go just about anywhere. There is nothing holding us back from any culture or continent. I think that this is magnificent. The airport also gives you a chance to people watch. There are so many unique individuals in this world. All of whom are created and loved by God. To me, the airport is a snapshot of what God sees on Earth each day. His people; moving, interacting, coming & going, fighting, laughing, struggling, rejoicing. Sometimes causing a scene or even a panic. Sometimes finding lost friends with reuniting experiences of abundant love. The airport represents possibility- it represents change.

I hope that just as we are watched by airport security, that as I am watched by God in the airport of life, that He is pleased with what He sees.

Friday, March 5, 2010

Fabricated Friday's- A Bit of Inspiration

Here's a lesson in being fearless.

Embrace the life that God has granted you & live life to the fullest.

Love God. Love others. Love yourself. Love Life!




Article by Tom Henderson, March 3, 2010.

Students at Penn State raised nearly $8 million during their annual dance marathon Feb. 19 and 20 to fight pediatric cancer.

They got a little help from a local celebrity.

Tucker Haas of York, Penn., showed up to lead his version of the Black Eyed Peas' hit "Boom Boom Pow" while thousands of people cheered.

Never heard of Tucker Haas? Oh, you will.
At least you'll know his face and voice. A video of the 10-year-old performing the song is going viral on the Internet.

He was already a bit of celebrity before taking the stage at the Penn State marathon. He appeared on "The Today Show" Nov. 12, 2007, after becoming an unofficial member (and the official inspiration) of the Central York High School varsity football team.

Football players even wear black T-shirts with words "Tucker's Team" in bright orange letters.

He was 2 when he was diagnosed with soft-tissue carcinoma, a rare and often deadly form of cancer. His mother Lisa Haas discovered a lump near his ear. A seemingly endless cycle of chemotherapy, medical emergencies and hospital stays followed.

His uncle, Matt Baker, is an assistant coach on the Central York football team. When Tucker was 5, Baker suggested introducing the boy to the team.

Head coach Brad Livingston invited Tucker to watch the second half of the team's second game from the sidelines.

NBC News reports Tucker's been there ever since. The little guy sends his teammates out for every game, telling them, "Just win, baby!"

"I think he's put everything in perspective for our entire community and our football team," Livingston told NBC News three years ago. "A lot of the other schools surrounding the area have picked up the chant. They've raised money. People have embraced him. He's taught us how to love the life we have and make the most of it."

Tucker seems to be a good luck charm all around.

The Panthers won a divisional championship the year Tucker joined the team. Now the Penn State dance marathon has brought in $7.83 million -- up from last year's total of $7.49 million.

The annual event -- called simply "Thon" -- is a 37-year-old tradition culminating in 46 hours of no sitting and no sleeping. Just dancing.

The event raises money for the Four Diamonds Fund, created in 1972 by Charles and Irma Millard in memory of their son Christopher, who died of cancer at the age of 14.

Thon organizers joined forces with the fund in 1977. They've since raised about $69 million to support pediatric cancer research and have covered expenses for about 2,000 families with children being treated at Penn State Hershey Children's Hospital.

Caitlin Zankowski, the overall chairwoman of Thon this year, tells the New York Daily News that a lot of things went into the success of the event. Still, she adds, the final total was remarkable given the sour economy.

"No matter what the state of the economy is ... students love this and families need us," she tells the paper.

Or as Tucker might put it: "Just win, baby!"


~Go Tucker!~

Wednesday, March 3, 2010

Happy Birthday To You!

Happy Birthday to You! Happy Birthday to You! Happy Birthday Dear Hubby!!!!

Happy Birthday to YOU!



Since you never, ever ask for anything, I thought the least I could do is share with you all of the things that you love on your very special day.





Click the title below.





Thanks for sharing life with me!


I Love You!








Tuesday, March 2, 2010

Bright Sunshiny Day!

You may never know how many lives you have impacted, so never stop trying.



Here’s a Bright Sunshiny Day especially for you!

Monday, March 1, 2010

Dehydration Dismissed!

Isn't Life Grand!