Okay, so I really don't blog like I used to. So I must confess... Just as I started getting used to being transparent and honest with the world, life began a new transition. So what did I do? I did what I've always done. Reverted back to my private, protective self. I often take comfort in knowing that I had a precious secret that will remain unscathed by this treacherous world as long as I keep my mouth shut.
But... that only works for so long. Then you start to get uncomfortable. You start to get headaches and blurred vision because the information you hold will make such a significant impact on the world that it literally makes you sick as you attempt to contain it.
So world, as we transition toward parenthood, I pray. I pray that I am everything God envisioned me to be and will continue to trust Him on my journey. This life within me is so great, I can not fathom trusting it to my own ability. So I just sit back and enjoy the transition.
Now, that I've updated you, let me start with what annoys me.
#1- It annoys me that people don't even speak anymore (a simple hello would suffice), as they blurt out whatever question kept them up all night worried about my belly. It amazes me how people feel obligated to information that has absolutely no effect on their life and well-being.
#2- Then, the next annoying step in the process is their look of disgust when I do not answer their burning questions. Nothing makes me keep more quiet or aloof than someone who thinks they're entitled to something that doesn't even involve them.
#3- Next up on my most annoying list, would be those who want to "see" your belly. Which really means, let me reach out and touch your body when you least expect it because again, it's all about me you know. The nerve! People are so unique and diversified that they never consider your feelings when they make their own self centered decisions. But please! Dare not deny them their desire.
#4- Then we have the, how dare she shop in the maternity section when she doesn't even look pregnant and I've been wearing maternity clothes for the past four years after the birth of my second child death-stare. I do not apologize for the wonderful experience that I'm having even if you can't always tell what's going on in my body, but I'd rather you simply ask me if I'm pregnant than try to bore a whole through me with your eyes.
#5- Next up! Talking directly to my belly when you are not the father of my child. It simply makes me feel uncomfortable no matter how well intentioned your actions are.
Whew! I feel so much better! Other than my top five most annoying things to do to me while I'm pregnant list, this has been an absolutely marvelous experience. With that being said, my blog is probably going to change. When all you do is think about birth plans, daycare expenses & nursery decor, the description of your thoughts must convey this message.
Now, although I believe this may be enlightening to some, it may be annoying to others. I understand. Just keep in mind that no matter where you are and who you are, you are going through some kind of transition in your own life. All I ask is that you take time to enjoy every step of the process, even the rough moments. You'll never live this experience again. Appreciate it for what it is and how it will enhance your being.
But... that only works for so long. Then you start to get uncomfortable. You start to get headaches and blurred vision because the information you hold will make such a significant impact on the world that it literally makes you sick as you attempt to contain it.
So world, as we transition toward parenthood, I pray. I pray that I am everything God envisioned me to be and will continue to trust Him on my journey. This life within me is so great, I can not fathom trusting it to my own ability. So I just sit back and enjoy the transition.
Now, that I've updated you, let me start with what annoys me.
#1- It annoys me that people don't even speak anymore (a simple hello would suffice), as they blurt out whatever question kept them up all night worried about my belly. It amazes me how people feel obligated to information that has absolutely no effect on their life and well-being.
#2- Then, the next annoying step in the process is their look of disgust when I do not answer their burning questions. Nothing makes me keep more quiet or aloof than someone who thinks they're entitled to something that doesn't even involve them.
#3- Next up on my most annoying list, would be those who want to "see" your belly. Which really means, let me reach out and touch your body when you least expect it because again, it's all about me you know. The nerve! People are so unique and diversified that they never consider your feelings when they make their own self centered decisions. But please! Dare not deny them their desire.
#4- Then we have the, how dare she shop in the maternity section when she doesn't even look pregnant and I've been wearing maternity clothes for the past four years after the birth of my second child death-stare. I do not apologize for the wonderful experience that I'm having even if you can't always tell what's going on in my body, but I'd rather you simply ask me if I'm pregnant than try to bore a whole through me with your eyes.
#5- Next up! Talking directly to my belly when you are not the father of my child. It simply makes me feel uncomfortable no matter how well intentioned your actions are.
Whew! I feel so much better! Other than my top five most annoying things to do to me while I'm pregnant list, this has been an absolutely marvelous experience. With that being said, my blog is probably going to change. When all you do is think about birth plans, daycare expenses & nursery decor, the description of your thoughts must convey this message.
Now, although I believe this may be enlightening to some, it may be annoying to others. I understand. Just keep in mind that no matter where you are and who you are, you are going through some kind of transition in your own life. All I ask is that you take time to enjoy every step of the process, even the rough moments. You'll never live this experience again. Appreciate it for what it is and how it will enhance your being.
